My boyfriend and i have been dating for a year
If your boyfriend is immersed in his work, friends, hobbies, or goals right now, then he may prioritize them first for the rest of his life. If you want this relationship to work, you need to accept that your boyfriend doesn’t have time for you now, and he likely won’t have time for you after you get married, settle into a house, and have kids together. He is choosing not to spend time with you for a reason.
Don’t keep going deeper into the relationship with the expectation or hope that he will change. He might not be able to share that exact reason because he may not even be aware of it! Personal insight and self-awareness is really hard to gain.
If you are important to him, he will find a way to see you. Don’t hope and expect your boyfriend to change, because he won’t.
Read through my tips for what to do when your boyfriend doesn’t have time for you below.